YOUR OWN BEAUTIFUL

Young ladies have a battle. One they face daily. This battle is with the world who tells them to look a certain way, act a certain way, and live a certain way. The world tells them what they have to do to be beautiful, so much so that they don't feel beautiful on their own.

BeautyliciousInsider YouTuber Chelsea Crocket knows and understands this tug young women face. She knows that beauty is skewed in this generation, where beauty radiates from the inside out, too many see it other way around. She tells girls that they don't need to stuff themselves into a "one size fits all," they just need to be themselves. In her new book Your Own Beautiful, Chelsea says, "...God has even better plans for us than what we can plan for ourselves. I think that's amazing! Someone loves us and has good things planned for our lives. Even when things get hard and the bad seems to be taking over, we can know God is there guiding us toward the future He has planned for us."

Chelsea wants girls to know they are beautiful and she wants them to be themselves. She encourages them to find their identity in Christ, not the world.

In Your Own Beautiful, Chelsea teaches girls how to find their own beauty as well as teaches girls how to live a life with Jesus. If you have a tween, teen, or young adult girl, this book is a must read.

Pick up a copy of Your Own Beautiful today!

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A Legacy of Confidence

I teach a children's Bible study class on Wednesdays and last night we decided to do a project.  This project required me to take a picture of each child before class began and then print the picture out.  As I print and cut each picture, the children prepared the popsicle sticks, stickers, and other fun things for the project.

Then I handed each child their picture.

Now, boys will be boys.  Most of them made some silly face or showed their muscles.  However, the girls smoothed their hair and prepared their most beautiful smiles.  But as each girl received her picture, I heard responses that broke my heart.

I look awful.

Ugh, look at my hair.

I look fat.

And the list goes on.  These are children.  Ages five to eleven years old.  Yes, even the sweet, beautiful, not at all fat five year old complained that she looked fat in her picture.

As I hear each comment I am thinking why on earth are these girls saying this?  They are all so beautiful and not one is fat.  Then it hit me.  They hear it from us, their moms.  Their aunts and grandmas.  We look in the mirror and put ourselves down because of our looks.  We see pictures of ourselves and complain about our weight, hair or skin.  

We diet, take all kinds of pills, exercise and still complain of our weight.  Now, good health is important, but good health and being a size six are two completely different things.

We spend endless hours on hair and makeup and spend money at salons and stores.  We like to look good, of course.  We want to look our best for our husband and to feel good about ourselves.

But friends, what message are we sending our children?  That weight is most important?  That we are not pretty unless we come in this perfect little package?  That we are less of a women if we don't strive for this perfection?  That our daughters must work to meet society's idea of beautiful?  That our sons must only marry society's idea of beautiful?  Anything less is failure?

Genesis 1:27 tells us that we were made in the image of God and Ephesians 2:10 tells us that we are God's handiwork.  Oh my dear friend, you were made by God's own hands.  He created you just the way you are.  You are beautiful.  You are His very own treasure.  Just the way you look right this moment, God things you are beautiful.

We need to find our confidence in God, not in how the world says we need to look.  We need to teach our children to have confidence in who they are in God.  They need to understand that they are His treasure too.  That He created them and loves them.  How can we teach them this truth if we don't believe it?

We should teach our children to exercise for health, not size.  We should teach them good hygiene and how to care for themselves.  But in a way that we are taking care of the temple of God, not meeting unrealistic expectations put on by the media, which half of is fake anyway. 

I am not telling you to stop exercising or throw out your makeup case.  But I am telling you that it is time we stop spending so much time in a gym and in front of a mirror and criticizing our self and time to start spending more time in the Word of God.  When your inside is beautiful and lovely, that beauty radiates to the outside.  I can see a woman who may not be the most attractive woman according to the world's standards, but she is absolutely beautiful because of the Spirit inside of her.  By the same token I can see a woman who is perfect by the world's standards but has an ugly spirit about her.  Which kind of beauty do we really want?  Which kind of beauty is most important for our children to understand?

See yourself as God sees you.  Have confidence in who you are in Him.  Know that you are beautiful, loved and treasured by the One who made you.

Sweet Blessings~

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What do I look like to God?

"So God created man in His own image." Genesis 1:27

How many times have you looked in the mirror and said, "I hate the way I look."  We have all done it.  More times than I can count I have complained about my weight, my hair, my skin and even my clothes.  Every woman has one thing that she just does not like about her body. 

One time while teaching a group of kids about hurtful words, we posted a picture of a dart board on a wall.  For every hurtful word, we threw a dart.  After awhile the dart board was full of darts.  Then we removed the picture of the dart board to reveal a picture of Jesus underneath.  Every time we threw a dart, we hit Jesus, whose picture was now full of holes.  The same thing applies here.  When we complain and criticize our looks, we are doing the same to Jesus.  We were created in His image.  God created us to be like Him.  Psalm 139:4 says, "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."  To God we are beautiful and wonderful.  We are His treasures.  So the next time you look in the mirror, say out loud, "I am beautiful because I am created by God."